Okay, it's gonna be another sex post.
What do you do when your husband wants more in bed than you want to give him?
A: Let him live without it. He's a grown man and he needs to suck it up and live with disappointment for the rest of his life. This is a dangerous way of thinking. Husbands have needs and us wives were given to them as a helper, for this very reason (among others).
B: Tell him it's okay for him to find what he needs somewhere else.Even more dangerous. To bring a third party into the one-flesh union is not godly, is not biblical. DON'T DO IT. Besides, he wants you to "do him," not someone else.
C: Learn to reverence your husband and stop withholding something he needs. Defraud ye not one the
other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves
to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you
not for your incontinency. (1 Cor 7:5) Whatever it is, start doing it. If you don't know how, ask him to help you or read a book, but for goodness sake stop denying your husband something he is desiring.
That's my rant for today.
