When my husband takes on one of my hair brained ideas and decides to make something for the house - something out of wood - he does the very best he can do.
There are certain things he does very well and certain thing he ... well ... doesn't. Building a level, straight end table with a drawer is one of those things.
"I don't do anything fancy," he said.
Meanwhile I kept piling little "extras" on to the project. Things like a shelf and a "half shelf," a flush-fitting drawer, tapered legs, and a fancy, routed edge.
While he did all the things I asked for, I wasn't able to accept his mantra, "I don't do anything fancy."
Well, the end table came out ... interesting. Not at all what I expected. It works extremely well as an end table. It has 2 full shelves and a drawer (not flush-fitting). The legs are straight. It is a beautiful table, and it graces the side of my rocker quite nicely. Even though it isn't at all what I pictured when I spewed my detailed instructions to a man who said over and over, "I don't do anything fancy."
He did his very best work. And I love him. And I need to learn to accept that when he conveys his limitations over and over and over. He means it.
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